(a)
The possible cases are
Case I A man invites 3 ladies and woman invites 3 gentleman
$\Rightarrow \ \ \ ^{4}C_{3}\ ^{4}C_{3} = 16$
Case II A man invites (2 ladies, 1 gentlemen) and woman invites (2 gentlemen, 1 lady)
$\Rightarrow \ \ \ \left( \ ^{4}C_{2}.\ ^{3}C_{1} \right).\left( \ ^{3}C_{1}.\ ^{4}C_{2} \right) = 324$
Case III A man invites (1 lady, 2 gentlemen) and woman invites (2 ladies, 1 gentlemen)
$\Rightarrow \ \ \ \left( \ ^{4}C_{1}.\ ^{3}C_{2} \right).\left( \ ^{3}C_{2}.\ ^{4}C_{1} \right) = 144$
Case IV A man invites (3 gentlemen) and woman invites (3 ladies)
$\Rightarrow \ \ \ ^{3}C_{3}.\ ^{3}C_{3} = 1$
$\therefore$ Total number of ways
$= 16 + 324 + 144 + 1 = 485$